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Level 1 · Registered
Level 2 · Authenticated
Level 3 · Qualified
Level 4 · Certified
Level 5 · Verified
Membership Levels

Every Step You Take Unlocks More

Five levels of participation. Each one is a commitment – to yourself, to the community, and to the process of finding something real. The deeper you go, the more the platform goes to work for you.
Start at Level 1 - Free
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“You don’t have to start at the top. You just have to start – and let the process reveal who you are.”
At a Glance

The Five Levels of Participation

1

Registered

ENTRY

2

Authenticated

VERIFIED PERSON

3

Qualified

FULL PROFILE

4

Certified

INTERVIEWED

5

Verified

FULLY VETTED

Level 1
Registered
20% Access
Registration is free and instant. You’re in the room. Now see what opens up when you go further.
  • Open-format events available
  • Community network access
  • Resource directory
Free
to join
Open
event access
Instant
activation
1
Level 1
Registered

You've Shown Participation That Already Means Something.

Registered members have made the first move – they’ve raised their hand and said “I want to be part of this.” That is not a small thing. Most people never take even this step.
At Level 1, participation is open and exploratory. Registered members can attend events designed for the broadest audience, where demographics are mixed, the atmosphere is welcoming, and the unexpected is entirely possible. Serendipity is real. Organic interactions happen. People who had no idea what they were walking into have walked out with something they weren’t looking for and couldn’t have planned.
This level is the door. The rest is what you do after you walk through it.
What you unlock at this level
  • Access to open-format community events
  • Membership in the MoDS Facebook communities
  • Organic social discovery and serendipitous connection
  • Resource Directory browsing access
  • Access to the Community Dashboard
  • The MoDS blog and knowledge library
2
Level 2
Authenticated

Prove You're Real. And Watch Doors Open.

In a world where bots, fake profiles, and AI respondents have made digital interaction exhausting, being a verified human being is more than a technicality – it’s a statement of respect for everyone else in the room.
Authenticated members have taken the step of confirming they are who they say they are. That single act sends a signal to the community: I’m a real person, here for real reasons. It’s not a small thing. It changes how other members interact with you, and it changes what the platform is willing to offer you in return.
Authenticated members unlock events and experiences that are simply not available to unverified registrants – because those spaces require a baseline of trust that authentication establishes.
What unlocks at Level 2
  • Everything in Level 1, plus:
  • Verified member badge visible on your profile
  • Priority community matching consideration
  • Access to authenticated-only events not open to Level 1
  • Increased trust signal to other members
  • Access to expanded Resource Directory sections
Level 2
Authenticated
40% Access
Confirming you’re a real person is the most important thing you can do for the people around you in this community.
  • Identity verified - real person confirmed
  • Trust badge on profile
  • Authenticated-only event access
+1
tier unlocked
Real
person confirmed
2×
event access
Level 3
Qualified
60% Access
A complete profile lets the MoDS team go from guessing to knowing – and that precision is what gets you into the right rooms.
  • Social Circles - values-matched groups
  • Curated event invitations
  • Curator visibility for manual matching
Full
profile complete
Circles
now unlocked
3×
curated access
3
Level 3
Qualified

You Want to Be Seen.Here's How That Happens.

Qualified members have done something rare: they’ve slowed down long enough to be fully known. A complete profile isn’t just a checklist – it’s an act of self-reflection. It asks you to name your values, define what you’re looking for, and articulate the kind of relationship you’re actually trying to build.
When you complete your profile to the Qualified standard, you hand the MoDS team something genuinely powerful: the information needed to stop guessing and start curating with precision. Every event you’re invited to, every circle you’re placed in, every introduction that happens – all of it becomes more accurate because of what you’ve shared.
Qualified members show commitment to the process. That commitment is visible to other members, to event organizers, and to Valdon’s team. It is, in every practical sense, your word that you’re here for real reasons.
What unlocks at Level 3
  • Everything in Levels 1–2, plus:
  • Qualified-tier events with tighter compatibility filters
  • Access to the DateMaker Series interest list
  • Access to curated Social Circles matched by values
  • Profile visibility to MoDS curators for manual matching
  • Curated event invitations based on profile data
4
Level 4
Certified

You Did the wordk.Now Get the Access.

Certified members are serious. Not in a joyless way – in the way that people are serious about the things that actually matter to them. They want friendships that are real. They want love interests who are aligned. And they’ve made it as easy as possible for the MoDS team to help them get there.
The Certified path includes everything: the assessments that surface compatibility beyond surface preferences, the quality photos that let you show up with confidence, and the interview with a MoDS team member – a real conversation that lets us understand not just what you’re looking for, but who you are when you’re looking for it.
Certified members don’t just have access to more events. They have access to better ones – smaller, more intentional, and populated by people who have done the same work they have. The standard they’ve held themselves to becomes the standard of the room they’re walking into.
What unlocks at Level 4
  • Everything in Levels 1–3, plus:
  • Group Dating (5+5 matched experience)
  • DateMaker Series - fully arranged blind dates
  • Access to Certified-only events - highest curated standard
  • Curated Speed Dating - fully pre-screened rooms
  • Elevated curator priority for manual matching
Level 4
Certified
80% Access
The interview isn’t a test. It’s your chance to tell us who you are. And our chance to go to work for you properly.
  • Assessments + interview completed
  • DateMaker & Group Dating unlocked
  • Certified-only event access
Done
the work
4×
event tiers
Serious
intent signaled
Level 5 · Lifetime
Verified
100% Access
Full platform access. Lifetime membership. The complete MoDS experience – yours indefinitely.
  • Lifetime membership status
  • Private 1-on-1 matchmaking
  • National network access
∞
lifetime access
All
experiences unlocked
5/5
levels complete
1
Level 5
Verified

You've Done the Work. You've Paid the Price.You're Home.

Verified members are not a different kind of person. They are the same person – who kept going. Every level, every step, every process that was presented to them, they completed. Not because they were required to, but because they understood what it was for.
At Level 5, the platform is fully deployed on your behalf. Every experience MoDS offers, every event tier, every access point, every curated opportunity – it’s yours. And it’s not a temporary status. Verified members are members for life, as long as they honor the Terms & Conditions and the Code of Conduct that governs this community.
This is what the ascent was always pointing toward. Not a finish line – a foundation. A permanent place in a community built on the highest standard of intentional connection. You’re not just here. You’ve arrived.
What unlocks at Level 5
  • Everything in Levels 1–4, permanently:
  • National matchmaking network access
  • Dedicated coach assigned to your journey
  • Private Dating Experience - professional 1-on-1 matchmaking
  • Photoshoot + profile audit included
  • Lifetime membership - access never expires
Side by Side

Every Level, Every Feature

Not sure which level to aim for next? Here’s a complete view of what each tier unlocks.

Feature 1Registered 2Authenticated 3Qualified 4Certified 5Verified
Resource Directory
Community Dashboard
Open-format Events
Verified Person Badge
Authenticated-only Events
Social Circles (values-matched)
Curated Event Invitations
DateMaker Series
Group Dating (5+5)
Private Dating Experience
Lifetime Membership

Every Level Starts
With One Step

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